The basic problem with my love relationships with women is that my standards are so high -- and they apply equally to both of us. I seek full-blast mutual intensity, fully fledged mutual acceptance, full-blown mutual flourishing, and fully felt peace and joy with each other. This requires a level of physical attraction, personal adoration, and moral admiration that is hard to find. And it shares a depth of trust and openness for a genuine soul-sharing with a mutual respect for a calling to each other and to others. Does such a woman exist for me? Only God knows and I eagerly await this divine unfolding. Like Heathcliff and Catherine’s relationship in Emily Bronte’s remarkable novel Wuthering Heights or Franz Schubert’s tempestuous piano Sonata No. 21 in B flat (D.960) I will not let life or death stand in the way of this sublime and funky love that I crave!”This may the most breathtakingly horrendous thing I have read in recent memory.
Who would have thought my shriveled heart/ Could have recovered greenness? It was gone/ Quite underground; as flowers depart/ To see their mother-root when they have blown;/ Where they together/ All the hard weather/ Dead to the world, keep house unknown. -George Herbert
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Princeton Professor Craves "Funky Love"
By way of First Things this article on Cornell West's ghost-written memoir. The highlight for me is the following paragraph, taken from the book,
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Ideas create idols; only wonder leads to knowing. - St. Gregory of Nyssa
I got excited at the mention of Heathcliff, but soon found that it wasn't the Heathcliff I was thinking of. There could have been some redemption.
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